“She had a knack of attracting the wrong guys, she gave so many chances, she gave and they took, she thought she could fix them and change them, she accepted breadcrumbs of love, carried other’s darkness, ignored the red flags and went from one toxic relationship to the next and then one day she woke up and she was done! She looked at her old life one last time, took a deep breath and whispered to herself, ‘Its time, I’m done, I’m ready for my new story to begin’ “
I’m Fiona Challis and if you had of met me only a few years ago this would of been the person you met.
You see back then I was going from one toxic relationship to the next. I believed that I was the unluckiest person in love, that there must be something wrong with me and that love simply wasn’t available to me.
Does this resonate with you?
If so I can assure you that I know how much it hurts, I know how stuck and helpless you feel when it seems you are always going from one toxic relationship to another. I know what it feels like when you just seem to attract the married men, the broken men, that you then try to fix, the emotionally unavailable men you give everything to and get very little back from and the narcissist that relentlessly love bombs you, gaslights you and then breaks your heart and breaks you emotionally.
I understand how it feels when you start to feel something isn’t right but you still hang in there for dear life and tolerate it or you self-sabotage as you would rather do that than feel abandoned and rejected. I understand how it feels when you seem to have control over all parts of your life and on the outside everything appears fine but when you get into a relationship everything seems to fall apart and you barely recognise yourself.
I understand how it feels when you start to question if love simply isn’t available to you, that feeling of friends looking at you in pity when yet another relationship ends and wondering if they are all thinking there is something wrong with you and that feeling of just wanting to isolate and stay safe alone as relationships just seem to hurt too much, even when inside you are feeling a deep sense of loneliness and emptiness.
I know that feeling only too well when you think you have finally met the one, you’ve met your soulmate, the true love of life. Your one has found you, and you have found them. Everything seems perfect and it feels like you have known them all of your life and you must have been destined to meet! You are happily planning your future together, moving in together and perhaps even planning to marry and then one day their mask drops and you barely recognise the person infront of you and who they have become and I understand that feeling when it ends and you feel like your entire world is crumbling around you.
Finally, I understand that feeling when you finally hit breaking point and you become so sick and tired of being sick and tired from all the hurt and heartbreak and you finally reach out for help as you simply can’t cope with any more hurt and heartbreak and you are desperately seeking clarity on why this keeps happening to you.
I understand as this was my story.
For me, when I finally reached my breaking point I turned to traditional talk therapy and although there were parts of the therapy that I found useful I found the weekly sessions and a year of going over the past again and again utterly draining and I couldn’t see how reliving hurtful childhood experiences was going to help me attract more meaningful relationships and true love into my life and I felt it wasn’t getting to the real root cause of why this happening to me so I started my search for a faster and more effective therapy and that is when I met my therapist and now mentor, Marissa Peer.
Marissa, founded Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), a standalone therapy that combines the most beneficial principles of hypnotherapy, NLP, psychotherapy and CBT. I was immediately drawn to it as unlike traditional talk therapy it works with the subconscious mind where we store everything we have learned and experienced so that we can easily and quickly get to the root cause of any issue. I was amazed by the results and how quickly I was able to finally get clarity on why this kept happening to me. I finally understood and was easily able to release all the destructive/negative habits, beliefs and patterns that had been hindering me for years and replace them with much more empowering beliefs so that I could then heal and be free. After the session, I felt a huge sense of relief, a lightness and a deep sense of love and connection to myself that I had never experienced before and a deep sense of peace and inner happiness. I’m now able to attract the right type of people into my life and will forever be grateful to RTT for transforming my life.
After experiencing just how fast the therapy got to the real root cause of my issue and how rapidly my life and choices changed as a result of the therapy I was instantly inspired to train with Marissa so that I could help the thousands of other women out there just like me so that they didn’t have to suffer a moment longer alone.
Fast forward to today and I have been personally trained by Marissa Peer, I’m a licensed RTT therapist specialising in relationship therapy, (Rapid Relationship Therapy), a Certified Hypnotherapist, Life Coach and NLP practitioner. I sold my previous training company that I had run successfully for 14 years and now run a thriving therapy practice dedicated to helping women all over the world to reclaim their life, to heal, to be free and to get that deep sense of love and connection with themselves and others so that they can then find the love and meaningful relationship that is available to them and that they are truly worthy and deserving of.
So as you can see I understand how you feel but I also understand what it’s like to heal and rise from all the hurt and heartbreak, to turn your past pain into your future power, to finally get clarity, heal, transform and be free to live your best life yet and get your very best relationship yet.
If you are ready to start your healing and you trust me to guide you on this truly inspirational and empowering journey please come and join me on my next Masterclass or book a Free Clarity Call in with me below.
I look forward to meeting you soon
Lots of love